February the month of LOVE
Would it be a good idea if your need for love, affection, gratitude could be fulfilled not only by your partner? But perhaps also through friends, interactions, meditation, reading, kindness to yourself. It is up to you to find your way.
Because otherwise our partner becomes a substitute for the mother or father from whom we expect everything.
All our expectations and needs of love can't be fulfilled only by our partner, it's an illusion.